Condition guide
Preconception health for men: preparing to father a child
Fertility is often framed as a female issue, yet male factors contribute to a large share of couples difficulty conceiving, and sperm take months to develop, so changes made now show up later. Preconception health for men means looking at habits, medicines and underlying conditions that affect sperm and sexual function, and knowing when to ask for a check.
Last checked: 2026-10-03
Key facts
At a glance.
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Alcohol
The NHS advises no more than 14 units a week, spread over three days or more, for men concerned about sperm.
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Smoking
Quitting is recommended to support sperm health, and it also protects a partner and future child from smoke.
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Heat and clothing
Loose underwear is advised because tight clothing can raise testicular temperature.
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Substances to avoid
The NHS names recreational drugs, including anabolic steroids and cocaine, as harmful to fertility.
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How often to have sex
The NHS suggests every 2 to 3 days without contraception to maximise the chance of conception.
Why men need a preconception plan too
The testes are constantly making sperm, and the process is sensitive to temperature, toxins, hormones and general health. The NHS lists problems with sperm count, shape and movement, testicular damage from infection, injury or surgery, ejaculation disorders and low testosterone among the causes of male infertility. Many of these cannot be altered by lifestyle, but several can be influenced.
A planning mindset is also useful for the couple. Both partners checking their health before trying may avoid months of wondering, and it allows early referral if there are reasons for concern, such as a past testicular problem or cancer treatment.
Habits that matter
The NHS low sperm count advice covers a handful of practical points. They are modest steps, and none guarantees a pregnancy, but together they stack the odds as far as is possible.
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Drink within the 14-unit weekly guideline and avoid binges.
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Stop smoking, including vaping where possible, and ask the NHS stop smoking service for support.
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Reduce excess weight if relevant; the NHS says losing excess weight may help improve sperm count.
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Wear loose-fitting underwear and avoid prolonged heat on the groin, such as laptops on the lap or very hot baths.
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Avoid recreational drugs.
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Limit exposure to pesticides, solvents and heavy metals at work, using protective equipment as advised by occupational health.
Anabolic steroids and other medicines
The NHS says anabolic steroids can reduce sperm production, cause infertility and shrink the testicles. Anyone who has used them and wants to have a child should speak to their GP, who can arrange hormone tests and semen analysis and refer on if needed.
Other medicines can also affect sperm. The NHS lists sulfasalazine, chemotherapy and some herbal remedies among them. Never stop a prescribed medicine without advice, but do tell the prescriber that you are planning a family so that alternatives can be considered. Treatments for hair loss, mood or testosterone replacement should be reviewed for the same reason.
Health conditions worth reviewing
Diabetes, thyroid disease, obesity, high blood pressure and sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction or ejaculation difficulties can all affect conception. The NHS notes that retrograde ejaculation can affect the ability to father a child and that sperm can be taken from urine or testicles in some cases for assisted conception. A man who has had undescended testicles, testicular surgery, mumps orchitis or a lump should mention it.
Sexually transmitted infections can reduce fertility in both partners, so a sexual health screen is sensible if there has been a new partner, and the NHS includes a chlamydia urine test among its male fertility tests.
When to have a semen analysis
The NHS advises seeing a GP if you have not conceived after a year of regular unprotected sex, or sooner if there are known concerns. Semen analysis is the first test and looks at sperm count and movement. A test can be arranged earlier for men with a risk factor, for instance previous cancer treatment, who prefer to know before trying.
Results are interpreted against reference values used by the laboratory, and a single abnormal result is usually repeated, since counts vary from sample to sample. Abnormal results lead to hormone tests, examination and sometimes referral to a urologist.
Mental health and relationship pressure
Trying to conceive can strain a couple, and men may feel reluctant to talk about worries or testing. Stress, poor sleep and low mood can reduce libido and sexual performance. Talking early, sharing appointments, and seeking counselling when trying becomes stressful all help. The NHS recommends seeing a GP if sexual difficulties or low mood persist.
What does not have strong evidence
Many supplements and gadgets are marketed to men at this stage. Evidence for most is limited, and some herbal products are listed by the NHS as potentially affecting fertility. Check with a pharmacist or GP before buying anything, and be wary of claims of a guaranteed rise in count.
Frequently asked
Questions people ask.
Quick, plain-English answers to the questions we hear most.
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How long before trying should I change my habits?
Sperm take months to mature, so improvements are best started a few months before conception, though any change is worthwhile.
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Do tight boxers really matter?
The NHS advises loose underwear because heat can affect sperm quality. The effect is probably modest, but it is an easy change.
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Can cannabis or cocaine affect fertility?
The NHS says recreational drugs can harm fertility, and cocaine and anabolic steroids are specifically named.
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How much alcohol is acceptable?
The NHS recommends staying within 14 units per week, spread over at least three days, when trying to improve sperm.
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Does age matter for men?
Fertility does decline with age in men, although more gradually and less predictably than in women. Other health factors usually matter more.
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Should I see my GP before trying?
It is reasonable if you take regular medicines, have a long-term illness, a history of testicular problems, or past cancer treatment.
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What if my partner and I have been trying for a year?
The NHS recommends a GP visit. Both partners are assessed, including a semen analysis for the man.
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Can stress lower sperm count?
Stress can reduce libido and sexual function, and it may have some effect on sperm, but most men with stress still conceive.
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Is it worth freezing sperm before treatment or surgery?
If you are about to start chemotherapy or surgery that could affect fertility, sperm freezing is usually offered through the treating team.
Where this comes from
Sources and checking.
This guide is for information, not medical advice.
Your GP or consultant knows your history and can tell you which parts apply to you. If your symptoms are severe, rapidly worsening, or come with red-flag features, seek urgent medical care. Figures and availability change, so treat them as a guide and confirm with the provider.
Published 2026-10-03, next review 2027-10-03.
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NHS: Low sperm count (https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/low-sperm-count/), retrieved October 2026
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NHS: Infertility - causes (https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/infertility/causes/), retrieved October 2026
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NHS: Anabolic steroid misuse (https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/anabolic-steroid-misuse/), retrieved October 2026
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NHS: Infertility - diagnosis (https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/infertility/diagnosis/), retrieved October 2026
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NHS: Trying for a baby (https://www.nhs.uk/pregnancy/trying-for-a-baby/), retrieved October 2026
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NHS: Ejaculation problems (https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/ejaculation-problems/), retrieved October 2026
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