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Constipation in children: why it happens, soiling, laxatives and when to see the GP

Constipation is one of the commonest problems in childhood, and in most children there is no underlying disease behind it. It can be painful, can lead to soiled pants that a child cannot control, and often takes months to settle. This guide explains how to recognise it, why a vicious circle of withholding develops, what treatment usually looks like in the NHS and which symptoms need quicker attention.

Last checked: 2026-10-04

Key facts

At a glance.

  • How common

    NHS inform estimates that up to 1 in every 3 children in the UK has constipation at any one time.

  • Key signs

    The NHS lists fewer than 3 poos in the last week, large hard poo or pellets like rabbit droppings, straining or pain, and bleeding because the poo is large and hard.

  • Soiling is not deliberate

    The NHS says a child who soils is not doing it on purpose, so there is no reason to get cross; staying calm helps.

  • Treatment takes time

    The NHS says laxatives are often recommended alongside diet and lifestyle changes and it may take several months for treatment to work.

  • Get help early

    The NHS says the longer a child is constipated the harder it can be to get back to normal, so help should be sought early.

What childhood constipation looks like

Normal bowel habits vary: NHS inform notes that some infants pass stools several times a day while others pass them only a few times a week. Constipation is about a change from that child's pattern plus difficulty or pain. The NHS lists the following signs that a child may be constipated.

  • fewer than 3 poos in the last week

  • large, hard poo, or poo that looks like rabbit droppings or little pellets

  • straining or pain when pooing

  • some bleeding during or after a poo because the poo is large and hard

  • poor appetite, or stomach pain that improves after a poo

Overflow soiling: when constipation looks like diarrhoea

The NHS explains that in a child over 1 year, soiled pants can be a sign of constipation, because runny poo may leak around the hard, constipated poo. This is called overflow soiling. Alder Hey describes faecal impaction as stool building up over days and weeks, leading to large painful motions and accidents from watery stool seeping around hard stool that does not move.

It matters because the wrong conclusion, such as a tummy bug or a child misbehaving, delays the right treatment. The NHS adds that laxative treatment may make overflow soiling worse before it gets better.

Why it happens and how a cycle starts

The NHS says there are many possible causes and sometimes none is obvious: not enough high-fibre foods, not enough fluids, feeling pressured or regularly interrupted during potty training, and worry about changes such as moving house, a new baby or starting nursery or school. NHS inform adds fear about using the toilet and difficulty with toilet training, and says babies who have too much milk are more likely to get constipation.

Pain is the engine of the cycle. The NHS says that if pooing hurts a child may not want to try, which creates a vicious circle: the more they hold back, the more constipated they get. Alder Hey lists holding in because of reluctance to use an unfamiliar or dirty toilet, low exercise, routine changes, a family history and certain medicines as further factors.

Rarer causes that doctors keep in mind

NHS inform says that in rare cases constipation in babies and children can be a sign of an underlying condition and names Hirschsprung's disease, anorectal malformation, spinal cord abnormalities including spina bifida and cerebral palsy, and cystic fibrosis. NICE guideline CG99 applies to children whose constipation has no known cause, called idiopathic constipation, once underlying causes have been excluded by history and examination, and it says a child with any red flag symptom should not be treated for constipation but referred urgently. One example of a red flag is failing to pass the first stool (meconium) within 48 hours of birth in a term baby; another is a child under 1 year whose constipation does not respond to optimum treatment within 4 weeks, who should be referred urgently.

Alder Hey advises that children who have a swollen tummy, vomiting or pass a lot of blood alongside constipation should be seen in the Emergency Department.

How it is treated

The NHS says to take a child you think is constipated to a GP, that treatment depends on age, and that laxatives are often recommended for children eating solid foods alongside diet and lifestyle changes. It says to keep trying for the months it may take, and that a GP may advise continuing laxatives for a while so poo stays soft. NICE guideline CG99 says dietary interventions alone should not be the first-line treatment for idiopathic constipation, and that families should be told that although there is a suitable treatment, it may take several months for the condition to be resolved.

Alder Hey says medicines that help the bowel absorb water may need to be taken for weeks or months for the best results. Doses are decided by the prescriber for the child's age and weight.

Daily habits that help

The NHS and Alder Hey suggest a number of practical steps for prevention and support.

  • Offer plenty of fluids; breastfed babies not yet on solids can have more breastfeeds, and formula-fed babies extra water between feeds, which must be cooled boiled water under 6 months (NHS).

  • Include a variety of foods with plenty of fruit and vegetables; Alder Hey suggests grating vegetables into favourite meals and mentions prunes.

  • Build a routine of sitting on the potty or toilet after meals or before bed and praise the child whether or not they poo (NHS).

  • Make sure feet rest flat on the floor or a step (NHS).

  • Ask whether the child feels worried about using the toilet at nursery or school (NHS).

When to seek help and what the pathway looks like

Alder Hey says symptoms are normally managed by families with help from a health visitor or school nurse, and that a child who has not passed stool for five or more days should see the GP because further treatment may be necessary. The NHS says a health visitor or GP can offer tips on soiling. For most families the pathway is GP or health visitor first; referral to a paediatric team is reserved for children whose constipation has not responded or who have warning features.

Frequently asked

Questions people ask.

Quick, plain-English answers to the questions we hear most.

  • Will my child grow out of constipation?

    Not reliably without help. The NHS stresses that the longer a child is constipated the harder it can be to get back to normal, and recommends seeking help early. The sources read for this page do not promise that it resolves unaided.

  • Why is my child soiling after being toilet trained?

    The NHS says soiled pants in a child over 1 year can be overflow from constipation, where runny poo leaks around hard poo. It is not deliberate and getting cross is unhelpful.

  • Are laxatives safe for long periods?

    The NHS says a GP may advise keeping a child on laxatives for a while after the constipation has cleared and that treatment may take several months. Alder Hey says medicines may be needed for weeks or months. A prescriber should review how long.

  • Can I treat it with diet alone?

    Diet and fluids matter for prevention. NICE guideline CG99 says dietary interventions alone should not be first-line treatment. Diet and fluids still matter for prevention, and the NHS says to offer variety, fruit and vegetables.

  • Why does my child hold their poo in?

    The NHS says that if pooing is painful a child may not want to try, so they hold back and get more constipated. Alder Hey adds reluctance to use an unfamiliar or dirty toilet.

  • How often is normal?

    NHS inform says normal varies by child, from several stools a day to a few a week in infants. The NHS lists fewer than 3 poos in the last week among the signs of constipation.

  • Can stress cause constipation?

    The NHS says worry about moving house, a new baby or starting nursery or school can contribute. NHS inform notes that pressure or constant interference with toilet training may increase anxiety.

  • What if there is blood?

    The NHS says some bleeding during or after a poo can occur because the poo is large and hard. Alder Hey says a child who passes a lot of blood with constipation, a swollen tummy or vomiting should be seen in the Emergency Department.

  • Should I take my child to A&E for constipation?

    Usually not. Alder Hey recommends the GP if no stool has been passed for five days or more, and reserves the Emergency Department for a swollen tummy, vomiting or a lot of blood.

  • Is there support beyond the GP?

    The NHS names health visitors, and the charity ERIC and Bladder and Bowel UK as sources of information on childhood bowel and bladder problems. NICE CG99 also says families should be offered a point of contact with specialist healthcare professionals, including school nurses, for ongoing support.

Where this comes from

Sources and checking.

This guide is for information, not medical advice.

Your GP or consultant knows your history and can tell you which parts apply to you. If your symptoms are severe, rapidly worsening, or come with red-flag features, seek urgent medical care. Figures and availability change, so treat them as a guide and confirm with the provider.

Published 2026-10-04, next review 2027-10-04.