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Middle ear infection (acute otitis media) in children: pain relief, antibiotics and warning signs

A middle ear infection is among the commonest reasons small children are unwell and miserable. Most settle by themselves within a few days, which is why NICE advises pain relief first and antibiotics only for some children. This guide explains the symptoms in babies who cannot say where it hurts, what a pharmacist or GP can do, the signs that need prompt review, and what can reduce the chance of repeat infections.

Last checked: 2026-10-04

Key facts

At a glance.

  • Usual course

    NICE NG91 says symptoms last about 3 days but can last up to 1 week, and most children get better within 3 days without antibiotics.

  • Antibiotics

    NICE says to consider no antibiotics, or a back-up prescription, for children less likely to benefit; NHS inform says antibiotics are not usually used for middle ear infections.

  • Pain relief

    NICE says to offer regular paracetamol or ibuprofen for pain at the right dose for age or weight, and that decongestants and antihistamines do not help.

  • Under 12 months

    The NHS says to see a GP if you think a child under 12 months has an ear infection, and to get urgent help if a baby under 12 months has earache in both ears.

  • Pharmacy

    The NHS says a pharmacist can give children aged 1 to 17 the same treatments as a GP for an ear infection.

What a middle ear infection is

The middle ear is the area behind the eardrum. NHS inform describes otitis media as inflammation with a build-up of fluid there, and says it is most common in young children. Most cases begin when a cold leads to a build-up of mucus in the middle ear, causing the Eustachian tube, which runs from the middle ear to the back of the nose, to swell or block. An enlarged adenoid can also block it.

The NHS separates three kinds of ear infection: inner, middle (usually affecting children, caused by viruses like colds and flu) and outer (otitis externa, from irritation of the ear canal). NICE notes acute otitis media can be caused by viruses and bacteria and that it is difficult to distinguish between them, because both are often present at the same time.

Symptoms, including in babies

NHS inform lists earache, a high temperature, being sick, a lack of energy and slight hearing loss. The NHS says symptoms usually start quickly, with pain inside the ear, high temperature, difficulty hearing, discharge and pressure or fullness. Babies and young children may also rub or pull their ear, not react to some sounds, be irritable or restless, be off their food or keep losing their balance.

NHS inform says that sometimes a hole develops in the eardrum and pus runs out of the ear, after which the earache, caused by fluid stretching the eardrum, settles.

Easing pain at home

NICE advises regular doses of paracetamol or ibuprofen for pain, using the right dose for the child's age or weight and the maximum doses for severe pain, which is guidance for prescribers and families should follow the leaflet or pharmacist. The NHS suggests removing any discharge by wiping the ear with cotton wool. NHS inform adds placing a warm cloth over the affected ear.

The NHS says not to put anything inside the ear, such as cotton buds, not to let water or shampoo into the ear, not to go swimming during an infection and not to use decongestants or antihistamines, because there is no evidence they help.

When antibiotics are and are not used

NICE says antibiotics make little difference to symptoms or to complications such as short-term hearing loss, perforated eardrum or repeat infection in children who are less likely to benefit, and may cause diarrhoea and nausea. It suggests considering no prescription or a back-up prescription, to use only if symptoms do not start to improve within 3 days or worsen rapidly.

Children who may be more likely to benefit are those of any age with discharge from the ear (otorrhoea) and children under 2 with infection in both ears, and NICE says an immediate prescription can be considered for these. For children who are systemically very unwell, have signs of a more serious condition or are at high risk of complications, NICE says to offer an immediate antibiotic prescription, and to refer to hospital if there is a severe systemic infection or acute complications such as mastoiditis, meningitis, intracranial abscess, sinus thrombosis or facial nerve paralysis. The prescriber chooses the drug and dose.

When to see a GP or call NHS 111

The NHS says to see a GP for a child under 12 months, for earache that does not get better after 3 days, or for repeated infections. It says to ask for an urgent GP appointment or get NHS 111 help now if a child feels generally unwell, has a very high temperature or feels hot, cold or shivery, has swelling around the ear, fluid coming from the ear, a change in hearing or new hearing loss, feels sick or is being sick, feels dizzy or has a severe sore throat, is under 12 months with earache in both ears, or has a long-term condition or weakened immune system.

NHS inform also lists a regular pattern of ear infections, a lot of pain, a discharge of pus, and underlying conditions such as cystic fibrosis or congenital heart disease as reasons to speak to the GP practice.

How it is diagnosed and what may lower the risk

The NHS says a GP or pharmacist may use an otoscope, an instrument with a small light and magnifying glass, to look in the ear. Prevention cannot be guaranteed, but the NHS suggests making sure a child has had all childhood vaccinations, keeping them away from smoky environments and trying not to give a dummy after 6 months old. NHS inform mentions the pneumococcal and 6-in-1 vaccines, breastfeeding, not giving a dummy after 12 months and not feeding a child lying flat on their back.

NHS inform notes that certain conditions raise the risk, including cleft palate and Down's syndrome, and that removing an enlarged adenoid can be considered if it often causes ear infections.

Nursery, school and what follows

The NHS says that if a child has a high temperature or does not feel well enough for normal activities, they should stay at home until better. Ear infections are not listed in the UKHSA exclusion table, so a child who is comfortable and without fever can usually attend. Fluid left behind after an infection can cause temporary muffled hearing; NHS inform describes glue ear as often clearing on its own over a few months, with grommets considered if persistent.

Frequently asked

Questions people ask.

Quick, plain-English answers to the questions we hear most.

  • How long does a middle ear infection last?

    NICE says about 3 days, up to 1 week. The NHS says most clear within 3 days, although symptoms can last up to a week. NHS inform says most get better in 3 to 5 days.

  • Does my child need antibiotics?

    Not always. NICE says to consider no antibiotics or a back-up prescription for children less likely to benefit, and immediate antibiotics for those who are very unwell or high risk. NHS inform says antibiotics are not usually used.

  • Can I use ear drops?

    NICE says to consider drops containing an anaesthetic and an analgesic for pain in some cases, if no immediate antibiotic is given and there is no eardrum perforation or discharge. NHS inform says not to use drops if the eardrum has burst. Ask a pharmacist or GP first.

  • Can a pharmacist help?

    The NHS says a pharmacist can give children aged 1 to 17 the same treatments as a GP for an ear infection and can give advice or direct you to other medical help.

  • What if fluid is coming out of the ear?

    The NHS lists fluid coming out of the ear among reasons to ask for an urgent GP appointment or NHS 111 help. NHS inform says a burst eardrum can release pus, after which the pain settles, but still speak to the practice.

  • Should my child avoid swimming?

    The NHS says not to go swimming while you have an ear infection and to avoid letting water or shampoo into the ear.

  • What is glue ear?

    NHS inform describes glue ear as a build-up of fluid deep in the ear that commonly causes temporary hearing loss, is usually painless and often clears on its own over a few months, with grommets considered if persistent.

  • Do decongestants help ear pain?

    No. NICE says evidence suggests decongestants and antihistamines do not help symptoms, and the NHS says there is no evidence they help ear infections.

  • Why do small children get more ear infections?

    NHS inform says the Eustachian tube is smaller in children than in adults and children's adenoids are relatively larger, and children at nursery or school pick up infections from other children.

  • What signs mean something more serious?

    NICE lists mastoiditis, meningitis, intracranial abscess, sinus thrombosis and facial nerve paralysis as complications that need hospital referral. The NHS lists swelling around the ear and a change in hearing as reasons for urgent review.

Where this comes from

Sources and checking.

This guide is for information, not medical advice.

Your GP or consultant knows your history and can tell you which parts apply to you. If your symptoms are severe, rapidly worsening, or come with red-flag features, seek urgent medical care. Figures and availability change, so treat them as a guide and confirm with the provider.

Published 2026-10-04, next review 2027-10-04.