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Questions to ask in a weight-management consultation

A good consultation about weight gives you information, listens to your history and agrees a plan you understand. These questions help you cover the essentials, whether you see your GP, an NHS service or a private clinic.

Last checked: 2026-10-03

Key facts

At a glance.

  • Prepare

    Bring a list of medicines, past diets, medical conditions and what you hope to achieve.

  • Ask about alternatives

    A balanced discussion covers behavioural support, medication, surgery and doing nothing for now.

  • Ask about the end

    Good plans include how long treatment is expected to last and how it will stop.

  • You can pause

    You do not have to decide in the appointment; taking time to think is reasonable.

Before you go

Write down your height and weight history, past attempts at weight loss and how you felt, medicines and supplements you take, any history of gallstones, pancreatitis, eating disorders or thyroid disease, and whether you are planning pregnancy. Note what matters most to you. For some people it is blood sugar, for others joints, fertility, energy or mood. This helps the clinician tailor advice and prevents the conversation being only about numbers.

Questions about your health

  • Are there medical reasons for my weight that should be checked, such as thyroid, sleep or medicines?

  • What are my risks from my current weight and what are the chances they will improve?

  • Which blood tests or checks do I need?

  • Do I qualify for NHS support, and if not, why not?

  • How does my ethnic background affect the thresholds that apply?

Questions about treatment options

  • What are all my options, including support without medication?

  • What would you recommend for me, and why?

  • What results are realistic, and how will we measure success?

  • What are the common and serious side effects, and how are they managed?

  • Is this use within the licence of the medicine?

  • How does this interact with my other medicines or conditions?

Questions about follow-up

  • How often will I be reviewed, and by whom?

  • Who do I contact between appointments?

  • What would make us stop treatment?

  • What happens if I need to stop because of side effects or cost?

  • Will you share information with my GP?

Questions for private services

In a private setting it is reasonable to ask about the prescriber's registration, whether the service is registered with the Care Quality Commission or equivalent, what is included in the fee, how much follow-up costs and what happens if the service closes or you cannot continue. Ask whether a dietitian or psychologist is available. Be cautious about any service that will not answer clearly.

What a good consultation feels like

You should feel listened to, not blamed. The clinician should explain things in plain language, give you written information and check you understand. They should be willing to say when a treatment is not right for you, and should not rush you to commit. If you feel dismissed or pressured, you can ask for a second opinion.

Afterwards: making the plan stick

Ask for a written summary or a letter. Note the next review date, the name of the person to contact and any tests to book. If you are unsure about something you agreed, send a brief message to the practice or service to confirm it rather than waiting for the next appointment. Keeping your own record of weight, blood pressure and medicines also makes later appointments more productive.

Frequently asked

Questions people ask.

Quick, plain-English answers to the questions we hear most.

  • Can I bring someone with me?

    Yes. A friend or relative can help you remember information and ask questions.

  • What if I feel embarrassed?

    Clinicians discuss weight regularly. Telling them how you feel can help them respond sensitively.

  • Should I bring photos or food diaries?

    A short food diary or notes about patterns can help, but are not essential.

  • Is it fine to ask for a female or male clinician?

    You can ask. Services will try to accommodate where possible.

  • Can I record the consultation?

    Ask the clinician first. Many are open to you taking notes or having written summaries.

  • What if my GP says no to a referral?

    Ask for the reasons, check the criteria and consider asking for a second opinion or a review at a later date.

  • Do I need to lose weight before getting help?

    No. Support and assessment are available at your current weight.

  • What if I do not want medication?

    That is a legitimate choice, and behavioural support, dietetic advice and treatment of related conditions remain available.

Where this comes from

Sources and checking.

This guide is for information, not medical advice.

Your GP or consultant knows your history and can tell you which parts apply to you. If your symptoms are severe, rapidly worsening, or come with red-flag features, seek urgent medical care. Figures and availability change, so treat them as a guide and confirm with the provider.

Published 2026-10-03, next review 2027-10-03.

  • NICE guideline NG246, Overweight and obesity management (nice.org.uk)

  • NHS website, Obesity and weight-loss medicines pages (nhs.uk)

  • General Medical Council, Good practice in prescribing and managing medicines and devices (gmc-uk.org)

  • Care Quality Commission, guidance on registration of independent healthcare providers (cqc.org.uk)